So, three things:
1) People are totally saying things like that about Bruno Mars and Ed Sheeran (I say that about them). Also, I don’t like any songs where people whine about their exes, regardless of gender.
2) If you’re gonna call yourself a feminist and your songs don’t pass the Bechdel test, we’re gonna have a problem. Your songs feature some whiny, dependent discourse that is just yucky.
3) All your songs are about ex-boyfriends.